As featured in Hospice Renfrew's newsletter, below is a remarkable post about my beloved aunt, Connie Farquharson, who, as you may recall, passed away last July. 
This look back at the life of my aunt is truly touching.Obviously, I am rather biased. After all, she was like a second mom to me when I was a little kid (as opposed to a little adult.)
But even those of you who may not have met Connie, might find her story heartwarming.
Connie Farquharson could light up a room, even as her own light was growing dim. Remembering her ability to do that has made today a bit brighter so I guess a little bit of my aunt's "shine" will remain with us forever.
The Story of Connie Farquharson
As comprised and written by her family
Connie Farquharson was an active, talented and fun-loving woman whose charm and sense of humour could light up a room.
At the age of 19, she married dad and together they raised five children on a farm in Admaston township. Mom was an incredible support for her family and friends. She was always willing to lend a hand, bake pies, and was there when you needed her.
She wrote about times when she couldn’t sleep, so she had french toast with one of the nurses. She made a couple of requests for special treats and she wasn’t let down. From snacking on cinnamon buns to Chuck bringing her a fish, her heart was constantly warmed by the thoughtful gestures of the people who make Hospice such a special place. In her book, she even recorded who won the nightly hockey game.
She wrote about how she enjoyed the luxuries of having her nails painted and her feet rubbed. She enjoyed sitting outside in the sun for 2 ½ hours. She loved having visits from volunteers, family and friends. The staff helped to arrange for Mom to play cards with her friends and go home to her apartment on four separate occasions. All of these efforts did not go without notice. Mom treasured each and every day that she had while at Hospice.
Connie Farquharson was an active, talented and fun-loving woman whose charm and sense of humour could light up a room.
She was our mom.
At the age of 19, she married dad and together they raised five children on a farm in Admaston township. Mom was an incredible support for her family and friends. She was always willing to lend a hand, bake pies, and was there when you needed her.
Dad passed away in 2000. In 2006, Mom moved into an apartment in Renfrew. She enjoyed playing cards, dancing, knitting, embroidery, baking, reading and traveling.
In 2012, she was diagnosed with Pulmonary Fibrosis. This devastating disease caused her lungs to become inflamed and scarred, reducing her ability to breathe.
Over time, Mom was unable to leave her apartment and take part in the many activities she enjoyed. Due to extensive support from family, friends, Community Care Access, Medi-Gas and her family doctor, she was able to stay in her home as long as she could.
In April 2014, Mom made the decision to go to Hospice Renfrew, which would be her home for her final three months. Under the exceptional care of Dr. Langlois, the wonderful staff and volunteers, Mom’s pain management was controlled and she was made to feel right at home. Having such a beautiful facility with a homey atmosphere - (a large kitchen and dining room where family could gather, and a living room with a toy box for the grandchildren) enhanced the experience for everyone involved.
She had a beautiful spacious room with a picture window. She enjoyed watching the deer, squirrels, birds and other wildlife meander outside. The volunteers thoughtfully planted her flowers just outside of her window where she could watch them bloom.
While in Hospice, Mom kept a small journal. She recorded the events of each day and this gave us some insight into the little things that meant the most to her.
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She wrote about how she enjoyed the luxuries of having her nails painted and her feet rubbed. She enjoyed sitting outside in the sun for 2 ½ hours. She loved having visits from volunteers, family and friends. The staff helped to arrange for Mom to play cards with her friends and go home to her apartment on four separate occasions. All of these efforts did not go without notice. Mom treasured each and every day that she had while at Hospice.
As busy as the staff at Hospice are, they always had time for our family. With five children, ten grandchildren and nine great grandchildren, the staff welcomed our large family as we gathered to spend our last moments with our mom. Her sisters both travelled a great distance to be with her, and they were welcomed no matter what time of day they arrived.
Mom passed away on July 21, 2014 surrounded by love and family.
Our family is so grateful for the outstanding care that Mom received. Her wonderful wit and sense of humour touched the staff and volunteers. Her memory will be treasured by the small stone that her name graces on the memorial display at Hospice.
As a tribute to the fine care that Hospice Renfrew offers, our family will proudly participate in Hike for Hospice Sun. May 3. We will be the ones making up “Connie’s Crew”.
