Like many
of you, I did not know Cpl. Nathan Cirillo. Yet somehow, given the horrific
manner in which Cirillo was killed the morning of Oct. 22nd and the information that
has been shared about his life since that time, I can’t help but feel like I
have lost a friend.
This sudden
closeness comes after seeing so many photos of Nathan Cirillo, a happy, fit,
handsome young man, who was proudly serving his country. There’s been photos
of him with his 5 year old son, Marcus, and a slew of others showing
Cirillo with his dogs...dogs that were rescued and to whom Nathan gave a
home.
Many who
knew Nathan personally have spoken about his love of life and infectious smile, something quite
evident in the photos that now circulate across the globe, thanks to online
interest and social media.
Nathan
Cirillo’s tragic death was only a part of the insanity that took over our
nation’s capital that day and sadly, the second senseless killing of a soldier that
week. Warrant Officer Patrice Vincent,
53, was deliberately struck and killed by a vehicle in Quebec two days prior to
the rampage on the War Memorial and Parliament building in Ottawa.
With all due respect to the soldiers and officers who passed away before him, there’s something about Cpl. Nathan Cirillo’s death that sets him apart from the
rest. His murder has struck a nerve,
tugged at our hearts and brought terror and sorrow very close to home.
When I see
the pix of Nathan and his husky dog, I’m reminded of my pal Rich and his
huskies. When I see him with his son, I think of friends like Neil, Rodney and
Tim and their young children. When I see Cpl. Nathan Cirillo in his uniform, I’m
reminded of those I’ve met who also serve our country in this brave and admirable
manner.
I may not
have known Cirillo personally, but because of his similarities to those around
me, it feels like I did and it is hard to grasp that his
life has suddenly ended, due to the actions of a very messed up individual.
Some have
said we can’t call Cirillo’s killer a “real terrorist”, because he a Canadian
who acted alone and was not linked to any terrorist groups. I think this incident
was more terrifying because it happened here, not the other side of the
planet or in the U.S.
It took
place at a sacred location, a place we have devoted to honour the brave men and
women who fight for our freedom. A place
of peace which is visited by millions, now forever tarnished by a vicious,
unthinkable act. An act that took the life of a 24 year old soldier, father,
son and friend.
The loss I
am feeling is not unique. All I need to do is look at the reactions of my
fellow Canadians, whose sadness and disbelief mirrors my own. The tributes. The
condolences from near and far. The rows of people who lined the streets when
Cirillo was brought home via the Highway of Heroes and then again for his
funeral on Oct. 28th. They too share my sadness and disbelief.
Seeing
Nathan’s 5 year old son Marcus, dressed in his dad’s hockey jersey – sleeves hanging
to the ice - as he dropped the puck at a local hockey game, brought me to tears.
Nathan referred to him as “The best son a father could ask for” in a photo originally
posted to facebook, which has “gone viral”. He’s just a little kid, too young
to really grasp the magnitude of what has happened.
History
will chronicle the horrific events of Oct. 22, 2014, the day Cpl. Nathan
Cirillo became a household name - a fallen soldier and friend, forever etched
in our minds and in our hearts.
Rest in
peace Nathan and know that we will never forget you and the way your passing
brought us together like never before.
Related Links:
READ ABOUT THE STRANGERS WHO TRIED TO SAVE NATHAN'S LIFE ON OCT. 22 -CLICK HERE
REMEMBERING CPL. NATHAN CIRILLO THROUGH PHOTOS -CLICK HERE
HOW CANADA HAS BEEN FOREVER CHANGED -CLICK HERE
MACLEAN'S REMEMBERS CPL. NATHAN CIRILLO
Related Links:
READ ABOUT THE STRANGERS WHO TRIED TO SAVE NATHAN'S LIFE ON OCT. 22 -CLICK HERE
REMEMBERING CPL. NATHAN CIRILLO THROUGH PHOTOS -CLICK HERE
HOW CANADA HAS BEEN FOREVER CHANGED -CLICK HERE
MACLEAN'S REMEMBERS CPL. NATHAN CIRILLO